Marriage has got to be the most un-romantic thing two people can do. How romantic is it to sign a business contract laying out the rules of a relationship? If two people actually loved one another, that alone should be enough. Getting the government involved is way retarded.

I consider myself a true Republican in that I really want small government. I don’t want politicians deciding on the rules of my intimate relationships. I don’t want someone deciding whether I can or cannot marry a man or woman which is the current case.

Let’s remove marriage from government and keep it in the church where it belongs.

Many tech pundits are convinced that the iPad is a Kindle killer. As a firm believer in black swan theory, I won’t even try to guess whether or not this is true. Instead, I argue that it shouldn’t kill the Kindle.

The iPad will have full color, allow video and audio, browse websites, and run apps from the Apple App Store. It’ll come with Wifi and some models will have 3G ensuring you’re always connected to the cloud. While it may do these tasks well, I don’t want my book reading to be interrupted by a tweet letting me know a friend is having a great cup of coffee in Bogota, Columbia.

I’m a pretty big ebook reader and have spent many hours staring at my Sony 505 reader. I like it because I charge the thing once a month, it’s easy on the eyes, allows me to turn pages with one hand, and I can easily copy non DRM’d books to the thing. Using the open sourced app Calibre, I can convert all my PDF books into epub. The Sony can read PDF by itself but it becomes slow doing the conversion on the device.

Most importantly, the Sony has no internet connection. No cloud at all. I see this as a feature as I’ll never be compelled to spend too much time on time wasting sites like Facebook and Twitter. Sure, I could just use willpower to stop me from doing those things and put my device in airplane mode but that’s easier said than done.

As a rule, I prefer to single task. I’ve found it most productive and studies done have proven the same. Technically, the brain is not wired to actually multitask. It’s just able to context switch fast enough to fool us into thinking we’re multitasking. When I dedicate on one task I find that both quantity and quality of work improve. So buy your iPad and try to read Ulysses. I’ll pass and read the paperback or e-ink version.

Dear Hollywood,

You have trouble making a decent 2D film, stop with the 3D crap. Bring me something with a good story and acting first and then maybe start to think about 3D for SELECT movies. Classics like Wild Strawberries and Pulp Fiction would not have been improved with 3D.

Thanks for your time,

Seth

I’m more than willing to exercise the second amendment to protect the first.

In the spirit of John Cusack’s movie High Fidelity, I’d like to share some of my top fives. All items listed in no particular order.

There’s a Chinese proverb that goes something like this.

A monk said to the zen master, “I have just entered this monastery. Please teach me.”
The zen master said, “Have you eaten your rice?”
The monk said, “Yes, I have.”
The zen master said, “Wash your bowl.”
The monk was enlightened.

I’ve been convinced that the zen master is teaching the new monk that you’re never done. Never done learning, never done growing, never done exploring.

I keep a very eclectic group of friends and acquaintances. Some are liberal, others conservative, and most are somewhere in the middle. If I were to bang dudes, I’d get some pretty dirty looks or worse from my more conservative friends. The truth is that I don’t bang dudes. Not because some people couldn’t handle that but because I think it’s gross.

The reason I bring this up is because a common argument against gay rights is that it may be a slippery slope in that if we were to allow gay couples full rights as straight ones, more people may join the other side.

People will ultimately do what they want. If you make it hard to be openly gay, they’ll bang their own sex in the closet and if you make it easy to be openly gay, straight men and women won’t start giving it a shot. It just doesn’t work that way.

The same is true with drug use. I don’t use drugs but not because of the legality, price, or accessibility. I don’t use them because it doesn’t appeal to me. I can afford and gain access to any drug I want and am regularly offered free drugs but I always refuse. If all drugs were to become legal as they are in Portugal, I still wouldn’t feel like using them. Cigarettes are easily available to me and have always been but I’ve never put one in my mouth for the same reason I don’t bang dudes. It’s gross.

Anyone who’s been online for even if just a few years has undoubtedly racked up a number of user accounts spread out across the net. I myself had half a dozen Yahoo accounts, three AOL instant messenger accounts, four Gmail, and a slew of other stuff that I just didn’t use anymore.

I’ve been putting off the task of cleaning these out for a while but have finally came around to getting it done. Why close these free accounts? Here are my reasons

• Allow new users to select your old username. It’s super annoying when someone has the name you want and hasn’t done anything with the account.
• Keeps your Google record clean for future job prospects. Maybe you were into something 6 years ago that you grew out of but may not look good to an employer.
• Prevents you from getting Email updates which may clutter your inbox.
• Lastly, it just feels good to know that all that stuff is deleted.

Everyone I know seems to want to live comfortably. You can’t grow as a person being comfortable. Get out of your safe zone and live uncomfortably. Make each day an adventure.

You shouldn’t be offended. Not just by this post but by anything. If you take offense to any statement or action, you’re letting someone else control your emotions.

If you’re ever at the receiving end of a racial slur or homophobic epithet you should be relieved in that you now know their true feelings. It’s the ones who bite their tongue but still despise you who are the real threat. It’s difficult to battle or avoid a camouflaged enemy. The more politically correct our society, the more we push bigots underground making the problem harder to deal with.

As American citizens, we’re told that we have free speech but if the government makes any law dictating what we can and cannot say, then speech is no longer free. I should be able to hear profanity on television, radio, and news print and people like Don Imus shouldn’t be getting sued for making any kind of remark. Yeah, I think he’s a dick but it’s his first amendment right to be a dick. Boycott the show if you’d like or fire him but don’t get the law involved.

I’d also like to point out that words are only as powerful as we make them. Definitions are loosely coupled to the sounds we make called words. Meanings for words are constantly changing. What may be offensive today was considered proper yesterday. The word retard was initially a medical term and is now deemed offensive. The word faggot has changed several times from bundle of sticks, to an old woman, to baggage, to a mercenary, then a homosexual. The fact that a word can change so easily and broadly means that it has no intrinsic value. Just the value we assign it.

Over the past year, I’ve been becoming what I call hyper mobile. My original goal was to reduce all my possessions down to what I could fit in my Jeep. I’m now looking to push that even further to make everything fit in one carry on and one stowed piece of luggage. With that setup, I could relocate to any country in the world with every possession I own on my person. Here are some tips that have helped me lighten the load to this point.

• Go paperless by scanning all documents and pictures. Digital copies are far lighter than their physical counterparts. I still have an accordion folder for documents that I need to have an original for but everything else is now digital.
• Own nothing made of glass or very brittle materials. They don’t pack or travel well.
• Use cooking gear intended for campers. You can buy very light and portable gear to cook with from camping supply stores. Eat out of the same gear so as to not require plates. If you drink juice or soda, always drink from the container. Cups and glasses will weigh you down too much.
• If you watch TV, watch everything online. A laptop is easier to carry than a television and is multi-purpose.
• Buy the thinnest, lightest clothing you can. If you need a jacket, don’t buy a huge puffy one. buy a smaller jacket and layer other clothing to stay warm.
• Borrow as much as possible. Befriend people with tools, lawn equipment, and pickup trucks.
• Sell seasonal items at the end of each season. I snowboard everyday but plan to sell off my board and bindings at the end of the year. I won’t get a lot for it but I’ll save so much more money and time by not having to lug those things around. Next season, I can purchase all new gear.
• Wear versatile shoes. Buy a pair of shoes that can work in many situations and be worn with many types of clothing. This’ll limit the pairs of shoes required.
• Buy a carry on bag with wheels, a laptop compartment, and straps to be worn like a backpack. Wheels are nice in airports and carrying it on your back will work well in crowded areas.
• Have no redundancies such as wearing a watch when you have a cell phone.
• Drink instant coffee. It doesn’t taste as good but you won’t need a coffee pot or press anymore.

I’ve been living in Steamboat Springs, CO for a few months now and life is pretty damn good. Check out a picture I took hanging out on the mountain.

I switch between Linux, FreeBSD and my Mac in a terminal all day long. When I want to download a file I typically use wget which is generally installed by default on most Linux distributions so typing wget and pasting a URL has become habitual.

The problem is when I’m on my Mac, I try to wget and get yelled at. Here’s a super simple function for Bash which will fix that.

function wget {
curl -s -o `basename $1` $1
}

Atul Gawande, a recent guest on the Daily Show with Jon Stewart was pushing a book on a medical checklist for surgeons to prevent mistakes and ultimately save lives. I was reminded of all the times I’ve had a checklist for complex tasks which made things much easier to remember. When packing for a mission, especially one expected to last several days in Iraq; it was good to have a checklist to ensure you didn’t forget to pack anything important. With so much going on and so much to pack, it’s very easy to forget something which may be crucial.

After watching the episode, I was hit with the idea for making an everyday checklist of ordinary tasks. I often have periods of downtime throughout the day and when I lie down for the night, I recall all the things I would have liked to accomplish which I didn’t. I had the time, I just didn’t remember.

I’ve compiled a very short and simple checklist for myself which I hope to expand and refine. I even added almost silly tasks like brushing my teeth which I hardly forget but it assists someone like me who just likes to check boxes off. It’s a rewarding feeling that helps build and sustain momentum.

Here’s the list in its current form. I have it written like a spreadsheet on an index card stuck on the inside of a Moleskin notepad which I keep on me at all times. Lines are drawn into boxes so I can check each task off.

• Stretch for 10 minutes twice
• Drink at least 8 glasses of water
• Publish one blog entry
• Write one Twitter post
• Ensure inbox is empty before bed
• Read for 2 hours minimum
• Brush teeth twice
• Accomplish one task on to-do list
• Eat one meal slowly and without distraction

My goal is to complete all tasks before bed each day and repeat infinitely. I plan to tweak the list as the days go on by adding new tasks that come to mind or removing tasks that I no longer feel are working out.

There’s a heated debate on whether climate change or global warming is happening and if it is, whether it’s caused by human action. I’m not here to debate either side. I’m here to say that it doesn’t matter.

Scientists supporting climate change have said that it’s so far long that we cannot significantly alter the effects. Once the ice caps start melting, there’s very little we can do. It’s highly arrogant that changing your light bulbs or driving a Prius is going to reverse decades of pollution across the planet.

There are plenty of other reasons to curb emissions however. If you’ve ever been to a large city with few regulations, you’ll know how disgusting smog really is. Having traveled to parts of the third world, my lungs have inhaled plenty of thick black smoke lingering in the air. For these reasons alone, we should attempt to curb emissions.

In the long run, going green tends to be more cost effective. Why don’t we use that argument to push for adoption of cleaner technologies? It seems much easier especially during a recession to get people behind cheap now than hotter temperatures sometime in the future.

The problem with climate change is that it requires a view of the entire planet over several decades to discover a trend. Even if the trend were indicating a man made increase in temperature, it’s difficult to get people motivated because our minds have evolved to worry about local issues more than global ones.

While I understand science and that weather can vary while the overall climate may be trending in a particular direction, take the recent weather here in North West Colorado. Temperatures dropped to -23F or -30C. How can anyone with a spreadsheet convince someone here that the world is getting too hot?

There are many good reasons to curb pollution besides climate change but it gets center stage in the media as it gets people agitated which brings in the ratings. In the time we debate whether climate change is real or not, Monsanto has created another Superfund site or Exxon leaked some oil into the sea. There are real issues that can be worked on right now. Let’s solve those and let climate change fall where it may.

If we focus on the present, the future will resolve itself.

Yet another attack over US soil and guess where it happened? A plane. It’s not because terrorists aren’t creative and can’t think of anything else to attack but they attack planes for emblematic reasons.

If your goal is just a high body count, planes aren’t the way to go. Some 747s can carry over 550 passengers when full. In NYC, a typical train is 10 cars long. The R143 and R160 cars used often during rush hour can carry over 240 passengers though anyone living in and around NYC knows that likely 300 are stuffed inside during peak times.

Even at 200 passengers per car and 8 cars, that’s 1600 people on the train. Detonate a large explosive on a platform and you can injure/kill maybe 100 more.

OK, so the numbers are in favor of attacking a NYC subway train during rush hour. You’d think terrorists would jump at the chance for a target rich environment like that. Why haven’t we seen many attacks like this?

I can pack a suitcase full of Semtex with a relative effectiveness of 1.66 and blow the entire train without going through one X-ray machine or checkpoint. I could send 3 guys out with suitcases on 3 different lines during rush hour and potentially kill over 3,000 people, similar in scope to 9/11.

So why aren’t these attacks taking place? I believe terrorist organizations have the funds and expertise to pull off such an attack but they just don’t want to. Terrorists are like snipers. They’re not after body counts, they want to instill fear.

All the added security at airports give the illusion of security to the common passenger but time and time again in tests conducted by the TSA themselves, these security measures have failed. Shattering this illusion is what the terrorists want. It’s as if to say “Spend billions of dollars and piss off legit travelers all you want but we’ll still get you”.

The TSA and government aren’t stupid. They know added security doesn’t do shit. It’s to calm the general population enough so they keep traveling. It’s like the National Guard guys that were posted in airports and subway stations a while back. I spoke with several guys who did that and they had no ammunition. They were just in uniform with M4 and 16s walking around to make people feel safer. But they had no real security benefit. The cops were more likely to stop something from happening as their training is more in line with catching suspicious persons where the military doesn’t generally train soldiers in that fashion.

I propose we remove all security from airports. No metal detectors, X-rays, or checkpoints at all. It’s a waste of money and a hassle for passengers with no real benefit. Even after 9/11 with $40 billing in extra funding to increase security, explosives are still getting through. We’re bankrupting the country and airlines and only stopping legit passengers trying to take a 6 ounce bottle of lotion on board.

I know that’ll never happen. Government puts CYA (cover your ass) above all else. The politician who signs off on removing security will be executed as soon as the smallest attack takes place. Because of this, restrictions are seldom relaxed but only increased. Everyone is too fearful that they’ll lose their job and golden goose along with it.

A man was arrested in his own home for nudity. Some woman walking her child noticed a man in his house without any clothes on and called the police. Officers arrested the man and are questing his neighbors to find more people who may have seen him naked.

What’s so terrible about nudity? I’m not a nudist nor do I enjoy being naked but I don’t feel it right to force others to cover up. The bottom line is that nudity isn’t detrimental to childhood development.

It’s not the nudity that’ll ruin the children’s life, it’s the confusing rules we have in place. For a young child, it must be confusing as to the problem with nudity. We’re all born nude. Most of us shower nude. Our parents bath us when we’re young, change our diaper, and if you’re like me there’s an embarrassing picture somewhere of you in the bathtub.

This is all acceptable by society as a whole though a child accidentally peering into a strangers house and catching a glimpse of a naked man can ruin a kid for life.

My biggest gripe with this incident is if the man actually gets convicted. A conviction would mean that he’ll be listed on the sex offenders list. Finding jobs and places to live are going to become difficult at best. He also has 5 year old daughter of his own. There’s a chance they’ll take his child if convicted.

The woman who called police is the biggest idiot. She should have knocked on the man’s door later that day and asked nicely if he could keep his blinds closed if he intends to walk around naked in his home. That would have solved the problem while saving tax dollars and police officer’s time so they can go after real criminals.

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Having served in the military, I’m often expected to be patriotic which cannot be more wrong. Not only am I not patriotic, I am vehemently against the idea. In fact, I’m against taking pride in anything given at birth and not earned.

Having intrinsic love for ones country is a dangerous thing. It makes it difficult to look at your country’s policies and leaders from a neutral standpoint. I enjoy many of the freedoms provided by my country and enjoy living in the United States. This being true, I still don’t feel it’s the “greatest country in the world”. The truth is, every country has pros and cons and none should be considered greater than any other.

Society should take pride in their accomplishments, not their birth rights. Taking pride for being born in a particular geographic location is as illogical as taking pride in ones age or skin color.

I’m no billionaire or even a millionaire but I’m very wealthy and yet only 25. I didn’t get wealthy with a super hot IPO or coming up with a brilliant idea. I became wealthy by changing my spending habits in relation to my income.

People don’t actually want money. They want the things that it can buy. Most importantly, they want freedom. Sadly, making more money rarely buys this freedom. There’s almost always a direct correlation to income and expenditures.

If you were to make $40,000 a year and drive a late model Honda, you would be reasonably comfortable. If I doubled your salary to $80,000, you may upgrade that Honda to a Volvo. Similarly, other aspects of your day to day may change. You might start buying premium brands instead of the generic stuff. Maybe you’ll stop clipping so many coupons. Whatever the case, you’ll probably end up living paycheck to paycheck even with the doubled salary.

I know how easy it is to fall into this trap as I’ve done the same thing myself before having an epiphany and downgrading my lifestyle. My vehicle is not bad. It’s a 2004 Jeep Grand Cherokee with 60K miles. What I like best is that it’s paid for in full. My credit score is excellent and I can afford the payment of a much nicer car but then I’d just be enslaving myself to a payment every month and higher insurance costs.

Wealth: having an abundant supply of money or possessions of value.

I don’t have an abundant supply of money but I have one possession with immeasurable value and that’s time. Because I’m living below my means, I’m able to work in a position that provides me ample spare time. If I were to increase my spending, I’d need to take a higher paying and more time consuming position. I’d have better objects but they have little value when compared to time.

In my spare time I read, develop software, I’ve started two companies, write for three different blogs, and I’ve made time to travel to different parts of the world. I wouldn’t have the time or energy for most of these things if I were working hard 40+ hours every week.

The best part of a downgraded life is the stress relief. Without having any debt or credit card balances, I feel very relaxed. Losing my income tomorrow would not be ideal but I’d be able recover quickly and debt would not pile up while I searched for a new source of revenue.

A recent news articles backs up what I’ve been saying for a while now which is that we’d see a lot less violence in places like Afghanistan, Iraq, and even here in the United States if we just raise the standard of living.

It turns out that the Italian intelligence service was bribing Taleban leaders to keep the peace. French troops not knowing this walked into an area being bribed without making a payment and were attacked. 10 French troops lost their lives.

It’s rare that well to do individuals turn to violent crime as they have more to lose. Taleban and Al-Qaeda leaders understand this and poach new members from the poorest of areas to do the grunt work.

It’s well understood that the majority of suicide bombings are for cash payouts meant for the bombers family. I’ve seen percentages range from 70 to 90 percent though it’s unclear how accurate those reports were. Regardless, I’m certain that the majority of bombings are for financial gain more so than religious fanaticism.

To stop or impede terrorism, we should be building up these countries economically. The ideology won’t go away but the leaders will have far fewer soldiers for their war.